spent 50g on the best gear possible that i can afford
I would beg to differ, based on what gear items I can see. Unfortunately your character appears to be naked apart from his Spear and Necklace according to the armory as I write this. Based on what I can see, I would be a bit worried about your other selections.
im using the best bow possible 35.6dps, and a spear 28.9dps,
The bow is probably fine, though I would be curious what stats are on it. Your spear is....terrible, sad to say. Fortunately its a quest reward so you didnt waste any gold on it. Hunters are not a melee class so the dps of the weapon is irrelevant, and also strength is almost useless to them. You would actually be better off with a green item with a few points of agility.
Hunters need only 2 of the basic stats, Agility and Stamina. There is no reason to seek out extra amounts of strength, intellect or spirit.
my armour is 1253 and im using mail
Again, because you are not a melee class, your armor value isnt that important unless you do pvp. Stats are more important than gear, so again a leather item with agility and stamina but 50 armor, is way way better than a mail item with 400 armor but spirit and strength.
im mainly using agility and strength
As noted above, ditch the strength. While you do get a very small amount of attack power from it, its really not a good stat for you.